Connecting Parents, Practitioners & Educators
committed to nurturing our Quirky*kids

*QUIRKY [kwur-kee]

We use the term QUIRKY to refer to a child who seems like a regular kid on the outside, but on the inside struggles with neurological, behavioral, or learning challenges. These are often invisible conditions such as Anxiety, Sensory Integration, Attention, and certain Spectrum disorders that can make simple things feel difficult.

How it Works

Search a Condition

Take a breath.
We'll help guide you.

Find your People

Tap into a community of parents, practitioners and educators who get what you're going through. Share insights, stories, reviews, resources and more.

Be Empowered

Make informed decisions that enable your child and your family to flourish. Take back control.

How we help each other

Divide & Conquer

Why reinvent the wheel?
Chances are, someone else has already traveled the path before you.

Map your path

Benefit from access to hundreds of reviews and explored pathways left by people who share your core values.


Find peace of mind, balance, and a community who walks with you.

The Togetherhood Mission

Quirky. Different. Special. Quiet. Our kids, for all their differences and peculiarities, are unique. And rather than try to change them, we seek to understand them.

Let's do that together. Here, in a place that is safe from judgement, surrounded by the infinite support of others whose shoe bottoms are worn from the miles walked on this path. It may not feel like it now, but there are other people — many, many other people — who get you. And they want to help.

At Togetherhood, you will meet parents who have been there. Truly been there. And with their guidance, you will discover practitioners, information, support, and other resources to advocate for your child. And one day soon, we promise, you will be in a position to offer your own guidance, coming from the wisdom of a parent who is on the other side.

We honor the light in your children. We celebrate them with you. And we're here to help their beautiful, individual souls shine.

if the pegs don't fit the holes,

change the shape of the holes.

We're more alike than we are different.
Introducing ValueMatch

We call it ValueMatch, and the concept is simple.

When you join Togetherhood, we ask you a few quick but important questions. Then when you're looking to other parents for advice or recommendations, you'll see their ValueMatch score as a snapshot of how closely their values align with yours.

That's because when we share similar core values with someone else, we are more open to embracing their ideas.

ValueMatch is a path toward trust, so you can feel at ease with other parents in your network who are here to help you help your child.

Our Members

The best thing about this site is that I have found so many other parents of kids with Selective Mutism. It's a comfort to know that there are so many families out there who face the same feelings of frustration and fear and confusion as me. Being able to reach out to these families has been a life saver.
Allison Exer, parent — Oakland, CA
I am so grateful to have found Togetherhood. I now feel like I have some sort of a road map for my child. I had gotten so overwhelmed doing research on my own! I don't know anyone else who goes through what we are going through and we don't have the luxury of trying out different therapists. The reviews and recommendations of practitioners are so very helpful. A truly valuable resource.
Jenny H, parent — Sunnyvale, CA